My Next Steps

Thriving during adversity

Not My First Health Rodeo – Decisions to Make June 25, 2026

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My 6+ decades of life have been speckled with unexpected health anomalies. So far, I’ve survived them all, thank you Jesus.

At 27, sudden appendicitis resulted in an emergency appendectomy. Then at age 37, a stealthy brainstem hemorrhage forever altered my life, paralyzing my entire left side (head to toe) which took 6 months of rehab to bring me back to “normal” activities of daily living. All function returned to the left half of my body, albeit permanently slower (foot, leg, circulation, hand, arm, and vocal cord). Due to walking with a slight limp for 30 years since that stroke, my poor joints are worse-for-wear, resulting in four left foot/ankle surgeries to repair. Then, late in the fall of my 65th year, I stumbled and fell, breaking my neck at C1-C2. Now I know what Frankenstein’s monster felt like.

One more bit of pertinent medical history. In 2017 (age 60), my annual gyno exam showed a large, benign tumor that necessitated removal. My gynecologist advised me that it would be wise to opt for a full hysterectomy to prevent future growths and because I had been in menopause for 6 years. My gynecologist sold me on the idea that HRT (hormone replacement therapy) was advisable to help keep all the cells in my body healthier and more resilient to aging. He prescribed bio-identical estrogen (patches) and daily progesterone pills.  So, when my 2025 breast biopsy confirmed cancer, I had been taking HRT for 7 years. After the initial cancer diagnosis, I began researching possible links between HRT and breast cancer. Even before the official pathology report came back, I took myself off HRT (mid-FEB 2025). I’m very glad I did. One small step that felt like taking a small amount of control.

I thought I was healthy…

 

Diagnosis and Denial – is this really happening? Did they get the wrong person? (2/14-16/2025)

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On Friday, Feb 14, (yes, Valentine’s Day), I received a confusing and unexpected call from my former GP. We had transitioned to a different GP in Austin a year prior, but hadn’t updated records with the gynecologist who ordered the the biopsy. So the biopsy pathology report went to the wrong GP. He was surprised that I’d had a biopsy since he hadn’t seen me in over a year. Likewise, since results weren’t expected until the following week, I was surprised to hear from him (or anyone) that Friday afternoon. He gingerly read the pathology report to me and explained the diagnosis – CANCER. And then he referred me back to the OBGYN for next steps. I was in shock and wanted to see the report in writing so he let us drive to his office to pick up a hardcopy of the report so we could study it further.

To add to the confusion, neither my OBGYN (who ordered the biopsy), nor the biopsy facility received the report that Friday. Therefore, they didn’t call me to review the results. That’s when denial started to cloud my brain. I reasoned that perhaps they had the wrong Carol Clark. Common name, right? I doubted this news…All. Weekend. Long. It all seemed like a plausible mistake in a surreal way.

On Monday, after multiple calls to the gynecologist and biopsy facility, I eventually confirmed that this report WAS mine. How could this be? I had no symptoms, wasn’t sick and didn’t feel like I had cancer. I didn’t look like I had cancer. All of a sudden, next steps began to stream in as I was assigned a breast surgeon and an oncologist. This was happening! Breathe deeply.